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Making Career & Lifework Choices
Part II: Finding Your Vocation
by Rick Sarkisian, Ph.D.

How do careers fit into God’s plan? There are vast numbers of career choices out there: 13,000 different U.S. job categories at last count. Incredibly, about 90% of the U.S. workforce is involved in only about 300 of these job types. In contrast, there are only a handful of vocations that God offers humanity (i.e. single, married, priesthood, consecrated life), and He gives us all the necessary tools to find out which vocation is right.

The question of career choice becomes secondary to far more important questions like:

Who am I in relation to God’s plan?

What does He want me to become?

How can I serve Him?

Our lifework choices become a collection of puzzle pieces that gradually form an image of who we are. It is our identity in Christ. Even a few pieces put together correctly give us a glimpse of the final picture.

The parts of the puzzle include our talents, skills, interests, training, vocation and mission/purpose in life. The pieces should fit together easily and require no special skill for assembly, just a desire to be faithful and obedient to the Creator’s master plan. Career selection becomes integrated with all the other parts of our life so that we serve God in every circumstance. We are a witness to Christ in work, home, school, and society.

Welders, waitresses, lawyers and accountants can serve Christ in unique ways since they are part of His Kingdom, and hopefully their identity is not defined so much by their job, but rather by the reflection of Christ in their daily activities. Having a career is not the same as having a life filled with God’s grace and goodness in every aspect of what we do.

I visited a Catholic high school that had a room filled with college catalogs, and a much smaller section of books on careers. I knew something was wrong with this picture. It was the emphasis on "college" as an end in itself. That was troublesome. It’s like taking a trip without having a destination. College for the sake of college can often be an exercise in futility unless college is the pathway to a particular occupation. Not all students are inclined or suited to college anyway. Shouldn’t the main emphasis be on seeking God’s will, particularly as a teenager migrates from high school to the working world? The important issue is seeking God’s plan and using His gifts wisely in pursuing a career and other lifework choices.

You now face far more school choices than the past generation faced even a few decades ago. Our colleges are filled with certificate programs and degree programs, electives and options, majors and minors, and "areas of concentration." This may translate into a problem of too many choices.

I have seen a number of high school graduates that are just drifting, going from job-to-job, major-to-major, interest-to-interest, without a clear image of where they are heading. They are like people in a boat without a paddle, swept down the river, and unaware of their destination.

I remember walking up Telegraph Avenue on my first day of classes at the University of California at Berkeley. I was already in a state of culture shock, having come from Fresno, California (the "raisin capital of the world") to the very urban community of Berkeley (a.k.a. Berserkley). I noticed a strange shape coming towards me, a fellow who was the self-proclaimed "Answer Man." He was one of the local street people, hidden inside a huge, wildly painted cardboard box, big enough for a refrigerator. Only his feet could be seen. Answer-seekers needed to drop a quarter in a slot, ask him any question, and they would immediately receive a rambling answer that was strange and interesting, but light years away from reality.

We sometimes want answers quickly and easily from God, especially about the meaning and purpose of life. Although His answers often come gradually, they are at least true and clear. Discovering God’s Will is often like peeling the layers of an onion or turning the pages of a book. The process is gradual. It may take a lifetime to fully discover God’s purpose for us as we travel on our spiritual journey.

TRUE NORTH

I like compasses. I’m intrigued by the way compasses never fail to point north. I have an old one made in 1917 that does just that – points north and has done so since it was made 80+ years ago.

Discovering God’s plan is a matter of following the signs that point us to the truth. Developing a strong Catholic identity in your life includes a steady increase in your love of:

1. Jesus

2. The Church

3. Prayer

4. The Sacraments

5. Mary, Joseph and the Saints

6. Scripture

These are signs that direct us properly in our quest for true north. Like my compass, they never fail.

If you are concerned about making life choices, you first need to foster a strong belief that God has a truly superb plan for you that’s waiting to be discovered. It’s the only road map needed because it’s the only true map. After all, Jesus said He was the way, the truth, and the life. He did not say He was a way. He does give us the true and correct way that we follow to put our life together.

Imagine going on a long car trip across the country without a road map. The odds are great for getting lost or at least side-tracked. We become subject to the flow and influence of traffic. Failing to understand God’s plan leaves our life wide open to the influence of society. We gravitate towards the world’s measures and marks of success and take a roller-coaster ride of ups and downs in a search for happiness and fulfillment. God’s plan doesn’t work that way. He unfailingly guides us to a life of true joy and peace. All we have to do is listen, respond, and be obedient to His Will.

TRUE JOY

Without knowing God’s plan, we become further subject to the whims and values of society, like wealth-building, image-building, or both. Success is defined in the worldly terms of money, power and accomplishment, or more subtly, with measures like net worth, retirement savings and home equity. The search is for more and more pleasure and financial security.

Happiness seems like it’s just a purchase away – we buy things we don’t need, with money we don’t have, often to impress people we hardly know.

The quest for happiness is a treadmill that keeps us from a true sense of joy and peace. Our acquisition of material goods seems to make life more complex. The more we own, the more worries we seem to have.

That’s why God’s plan is the best plan. It contains everything we need for true joy on the journey to His eternal Kingdom. It is not based on "feeling fulfilled" in a "rewarding career," or having lots of "stuff," but rather on simply and consistently being faithful to the One who created us.

Our vocation and mission involves far more than the limits of career choice. It makes up our lifework and very existence as human beings, as a one-of-a-kind, unrepeatable work of love in partnership with God’s creative powers in service to the Gospel.

 

 

© Copyright 2004, Rick Sarkisian and NextWave Faithful™. All Rights Reserved. Duplication is prohibited.

Rick Sarkisian, Ph.D., is founder and president of Valley Rehabilitation Services, specializing in vocational and career guidance for the last 20 years. He is also the director of LifeWork Press (www.lifeworkpress.com) and the author of the books, LifeWork: Finding Your Purpose in Life, and The LifeWork Inventory. Both are available from our Online Catalog

 
 
 
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