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Keeping a Christian Perspective…When Life Goes Haywire 

by Stephanie Wood 

The second largest disaster in U.S. history (second only to 9/11) hit my hometown last week. We had two hours of advance notice that Charley had decided to change course and pay us an up close and personal visit. We had only enough time to secure the house as best we could, find a safe place in the house to use as a hurricane shelter, and hunker down to wait out the storm.  

On Friday afternoon, August 13th, a Category Four hurricane whipped through Port Charlotte/Punta Gorda, Florida, leaving over eight billion dollars in damages, including my parent’s home, my condo and car, and the offices and radio studio of the NextWave Faithful ministry.  

Life has changed dramatically for the residents of Charlotte County. Our community has spent the past two weeks cleaning up debris, gutting wet drywall, carpet, and insulation from our homes and businesses, working to repair our roofs to prevent further water damage, and commuting to neighboring towns to buy food, water, ice and gasoline. We’re all wishing that hurricane season was during balmy October or cool November, instead of Southwest Florida’s hottest month of the year. One of my sisters nearly fainted from heat exhaustion last week, and one of the volunteers who came to help us clear debris from our house ended up in the hospital with heat stroke.  

Every day is a new adventure. As of today, we’ve been without electricity, phone lines, drinkable water lines, or Internet service (I never knew how addicted I was to my email!) for fourteen days. The roof and ceiling over my condo collapsed on my bedroom, and the glass window exploded during the storm. It was hard to suck it up and say goodbye to pictures, memorabilia, furniture and clothes that I once thought I couldn’t part with. A tree fell on my Honda Civic – it’s driveable, but it definitely needs more than a few Band-Aids.  

If there has ever been a time in my life I could describe as chaotic, it would be now. There are so many uncertainties, inconveniences, and disappointments as we struggle as a community to get back on our feet. But through it all, I have to tell you about the blessing it has been to witness a community that has undergone such extensive devastation…and still has hope.  

My family and I have witnessed the power of kindness, brotherly love, and charity that our fellow Americans have for those in need. Electrical engineers from all over the United States have come to Charlotte County to restore power as quickly as possible to our community. The engineers working in our neighborhood are from Tennessee and West Virginia. They’ve left their homes and their families for the next several weeks, getting five or six hours of sleep a night. We’ve seen corporations, ministries, relief organizations, and churches of all denominations come together to help our community get back on our feet. The spirit of this community has been transformed. There are no street lights in our town, and yet, I’ve never seen better driving in Port Charlotte. Everyone has a kind word for another, and wants to help those less fortunate than themselves. It’s beautiful to witness true kindness in action. One of our staff members walked into the office this morning and told us about the selflessness of the out-of-state workers who have come to work on his home. His final comment was, “if there’s one thing I have to say after Charley, it’s that I’m proud to be an American.”  

Living through a natural disaster like Hurricane Charley has made me see everything around me, all the blessings in my life, in a new light. This experience has made me realize that I don’t deserve electricity, air conditioning, good food and clean water – I’ve been blessed with these things, and probably taken them for granted my whole life. For the first time I really appreciate these commodities and understand that they are gifts that God has blessed me with.  

For our staff and families, the past two weeks have been a test of our faith and our perseverance. It has also been an opportunity for us to put our faith into action and reach beyond ourselves and our struggles to see the big picture of how blessed we are. We have our lives, our health intact, our families safe, and our Faith – and these are the things that really matter.  

I’ve thought often of the story of Job in the Bible these past weeks. Job was a man who feared God, and lived his life without sin (Job 1:22). When God tested Job’s faith, He took away Job’s home, his land, his children, his wife…everything. And in the midst of that intense suffering, Job still had the courage to worship God:  

 “Then Job arose, and rent his robe, and shaved his head, and fell upon the ground and worshiped. And he said, ‘Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return; the Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed by the name of the Lord.” – Job 1:20-21 

When I got in my car for the first time after the storm, the song that came on the radio was a song performed by Tree63 that’s on the Christian music charts right now; it’s called “Blessed Be Your Name.” The song is about the prayer of Job – that no matter what the circumstances, good or evil, we will choose to praise the Lord.  

I choked up when I heard this song after Hurricane Charley, because I realized that, with God’s grace, I could still choose to have a joyful heart even in this disaster situation. The last verse of the song says: “You give and take away/ You give and take away/ My heart will choose to say/ Lord, Blessed be your name.” Thus, even though life is throwing me lots of curve balls right now, I can choose to praise the name of my Lord and Savior, Who is the giver of every blessing and good gift that I have.  

As Christians, our perspective in every situation should be, “Lord, blessed by your name.” There is no calamity, natural disaster, or personal sorrow that we will experience in this life that cannot be conquered by the love and grace of Jesus Christ. He promised to be with us through it all.  After experiencing ground zero of Hurricane Charley, I can testify first hand: His promises are steadfast and true.  

“Behold, I am with you always, even to the end of the world.” (Matthew 28:20)

“Blessed Be Your Name”

by Matt and Beth Redman 

Blessed be your name
In the land that is plentiful
Where the streams of abundance flow
Blessed be your name

Blessed be your name
When I'm found in the desert place
Though I walk through the wilderness
Blessed be your name

Every blessing you pour out,
I’ll turn back to praise
When the darkness closes in, Lord
Still I will say...

Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be your glorious name

Blessed be your name
When the sun's shining down on me
When the world's all as it should be
Blessed be your name

Blessed be your name
On the road marked with suffering
Though there's pain in the offering
Blessed be your name

Every blessing you pour out,
I’ll turn back to praise
When the darkness closes in, Lord
Still I will say...

Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be your glorious name

You give and take away
You give and take away
My heart will choose to say
Lord, Blessed be your name

                                                                                                    

 
 

Copyright © 2004, NextWave Faithful and Stephanie Wood. All Rights Reserved.  

“Blessed Be Your Name” lyrics and music by Matt Redman and Beth Redman. Copyright © 2002, Thankyou Music. All Rights Reserved. Performed by Tree63 and Rebecca St. James.

 
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